Demedim Mi

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Beautiful lover, haven’t I told you*

You can’t suffer our grief
This is a morsel of acceptance
Haven’t I told you, you can’t swallow it

These who don’t eat remain irreparable

Spread blood out from their eyes
This is a phase, it comes and passes by
Haven’t I told you, you can’t hear (sense) it

Haven’t I told you, haven’t I told you
My heart, haven’t I said to you?
This is a phase, comes and passes by
Haven’t I told you, you can’t hear (sense) it

Look at the state of that love*
It doesn’t hesitate to say whatever comes up in its mind
Haven’t I told you, you can’t commit your life
To the way of the truth

Haven’t I told you, haven’t I told you
My heart, haven’t I said to you
Haven’t I told you, you can’t commit your life
To the way of the truth

Lovers are desolated ones*
(Dervishes are desolated ones)*
Find the honor at the stair of the truth
Friendly conversation is sweeter than honey
Haven’t I told you, you can’t get enough of it

Haven’t I told you, haven’t I told you
My heart, haven’t I said to you
Friendly conversation is sweeter than honey
Haven’t I told you, you can’t get enough of it

Let’s turn ourself to Ali‘s body*
(Let’s comprehend the secret of Ali)*
(Let’s go to surrender ourself to Mansur’s hands)*
Let’s appear the arena
*

Haven’t I told you, haven’t I told you
My heart, haven’t I said to you

I’m Pir Sultan and say “our shah”*
Our soul reach the truth
Twelve leaders are our sovereigns*
Haven’t I told you, you can’t conform to

Haven’t I told you, haven’t I told you
My heart, haven’t I said to you
Twelve leaders are our sovereigns
Haven’t I told you, you can’t conform to

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Wise Man Vs. A Fool

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A wise man can see more from the bottom of a well than a fool can from a mountain top .

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Are They Gone?

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Lies Beneath Her

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Truth is, this crazy heart of mine is saying, don’t let your heart get enticed with anyone, lies are all the promises of love, lies are all the swears in love, the moment i loved her, the one i prayed for, that person only broke my heart, she left me all alone, weather was very lovely and  i saw her in me deep down in me, i became crazy for her at that moment, when she came into my life and she is in my feelings, in my breath and her absence is there in my life, she is far away from my eyes, why am i loving her, beautiful was that lovely lady, beautiful i started getting lost without drinking i started getting intoxicated 

one day i will forget her, i wil destroy all the marks of her, as she pretend she will forget me which she wont, i wont lover her heart of stone, go tell her

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I Love Listening To Lies When I know The Truth

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It just came into my mind why Ulrich was arguing. So it raises questions in my head I decided to share it.

We all have a strong affinity to understanding things, especially understanding other people’s behavior that causes us concerns or problems. Lies are always destructive in the end, and when they happen in a personal relationship they are the termites that eat away at the fundamental trust foundation at the center of the relationship. Relationships are extremely important and valuable in life and no relationship can survive with lies. Understanding why people lie is critical to understanding the purpose of relationships and learning how to make them better for ourselves and others.

Researchers have been studying deception for decades, trying to figure out why we tell lies. It turns out that we spin facts and make up fictions for all sorts of reasons. We might want to gain a raise or a reward, for example, or to protect friends or a lover. Our capacity for deceit appears nearly endless, from embroidering stories to wearing fake eyelashes to asking “How are you?” when we don’t actually care. We even lie to ourselves about how much food we eat and how often we visit the gym.

Small embellishments can have positive psychological effects, experts say. Their fiction, in other words, became self-fulfilling. “Exaggerators tend to be more confident and have higher goals for achievement,” and one of the study’s coauthors. “Positive biases about the self can be beneficial.”

People who deceive themselves also tend to be happier than people who do not, some research suggests. There are social payoffs, too: Studies have shown that people who lie frequently are viewed as friendlier and more amiable than their more truthful counterparts. Still, lying is generally regarded as immoral and distasteful. “No one likes being lied to,” says former FBI agent and lying expert Joe Navarro. “We feel betrayed. When is it that they are telling the truth?” And people do really want to know the truth. A new Fox drama, Lie to Me, which features a steely British deception expert, has become one of the most popular shows on television.

Lying begins early. By the age of 3, most children know how to fib, and by 6, most lie a few times a day. Experts believe that children learn to lie by observing their parents do it—that they become practiced in the art of deception by imitating Mom and Dad. And parents sometimes explicitly encourage children to tell lies. Grandma Suzy will send some ugly wool socks or an itchy sweater, and parents will ask their son or daughter to say the item is lovely. As one study concluded, children “may learn to lie in the same way as they learn to speak.”

Many experts don’t see much difference between a little lie (telling Grandma you loved the ugly socks) and a big lie (covering up an extramarital affair). “Anything that is not accurate is a lie. You can argue that a lie done to make someone else feel better is relatively minor. But they have an effect. The bottom line is that a lie is a lie,” says Feldman. “That’s the great paradox here. I do believe the more lies, the more degradation. But you can’t stop lies entirely. Society would grind to a halt.”

Still, people act differently when they’re gilding a story and when they’re telling a massive whopper. When people tell a bold and blatant lie, they typically become tense and fidgety. Their heart rate speeds up. Their body temperature increases. But when telling white, or social, lies, they usually don’t feel any anxiety at all. In fact, electrodes attached to the bodies of students in Gramzow’s study revealed that the students who exaggerated their GPAs showed less nervous-system activity than students who were honest about their marks. “In certain situations, such as when someone asks you if you like the awful meal they just served you or the hideous outfit they are wearing, it probably takes less thinking to tell the expected polite lie than the more difficult truth,”

MORAL IS; Good realtionships serve the purpose to teach us how to love and be loved. The main increadient to loving relationships is honest communciation.

MoR

Cosmetics For Our Soul

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The best cosmetics in life and for our body is;
Truth – for lips
Pity – for eyes
Charity – for hands
Smile – for face
Love – for heart

Beauty Of The Heart

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The beauty of  the heart

 

 

 

is the lasting beauty:

 

 

 

its lips give to drink

 

 

 

of the water of life.

Truly it is the water,

 

 

 

that which pours,

 

 

 

and the one who drinks.

 

 

 

All three become one when 

 

 

 

your talisman is shattered.

 

 

 

That oneness you can’t know

 

 

 

by reasoning.

Should I, or I Sould Marry You?

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Once there was a very handsome, pious, well educated young man, whose parents emphasized for him to get married.

They had seen so many marriage proposals, and he had turned them all down. The parents thought it was becoming a little ridiculous or suspected that he may have someone else in mind.

However every time the parents left the girls house, the young man would always say ‘she’s not the one!

‘The young man only wanted a girl who was religious and practicing, however one evening his mother arranged for him, to meet a girl, who was religious, and practicing.On that evening, the young man, and girl, were left to talk, and ask each other questions. (As one would expect).

The young man, being a gentleman that he was allowed, the lady to ask first.

The young girl asked the young man so many questions, she asked about his life, his education, his friends, his family, his habits, his hobbies, his lifestyle, his enjoyment, his pastime, his experiences, his shoe size……

The young man replied to all of her questions, without tiring, and politely, with a smile the young girl took up nearly all of the time, over an hour, and felt bad, and asked the young man do you have any questions?

The young man said, it’s ok. I only have 3 questions…The young girl thought, Wow, ONLY 3 questions okay, shoot!

The young man’s 1st question was,

Q1: Who do you love the most in the world, someone who’s love nothing would ever overcome?

A1: She said, this is an easy question; my mother, he smiled..

Q2: 2nd question, he asked, you said that you read a lot of qur’an, could you tell me which surahs you know the meaning of?

A2: Hearing this she went red and embarrassed and said, I do not know the meaning of any yet, but I am hoping to soon insha’allah I’ve just been a bit busy.

Q3: The 3rd question the young man asked, was I have been approached for my hand in marriage, by girls that are a lot more prettier than you Why should I marry you?

A3: Hearing this the young girl was outraged, she stormed off to her parents with fury, and said I do not want to marry this man he is insulting my beauty, and intelligence. And the young man and his parents, were once again, left without an agreement of marriage. This time, the young mans parents were really angry, and said what did you do to anger that girl, the family were so nice, and pleasant, and they were religious like you wanted. What did you ask the girl?? Tell us!

1. The young man said, firstly I asked her, who do you love the most? she said, her mother, The parents said so, what is wrong with that??The young man said, ‘no one, is Muslim, until he loves Allah, and his messenger (saw) more than anyone else in the world’If a woman loves Allah and the Prophet (pbuh) more than anyone, she will love me and respect me, and stay faithful to me, because of that love, and fear for Allah (swt). and we can share this love, because this love is greater than lust for beauty.

2. The young man said, then I asked, you read a lot of qur’an, can you tell me the meaning of any surah?And she said no, because I haven’t had time yet. so I thought of that hadith ‘ALL humans, are dead except for those who have knowledge’ She has lived 20 years and not found ANY time, to seek knowledge, why would I marry a woman, who does not know her rights, and responsibilities, and what will she teach my children, except how to be negligent, because the woman IS the madrasa (school) and the best of teachers. And a woman who has no time for Allah, will not have time for her husband.

3. The third question I asked her was, that a lot of girls, more prettier than her, had approached me for marriage, why should I choose you?That is why she stormed off, getting angry. The young man’s parents said that is a horrible thing to say, why would you do such a thing, we are going back there to apologies. The young man said I said this on purpose, to test whether she could control her anger.The Prophet (saw) said ‘do not get angry, do not get angry, do not get angry’ when asked how to become pious; because anger is from Satan.If a woman cannot control her anger with a stranger she has just met, do you think she will be able to control it with her husband??

So, the moral of this story is, a marriage is based on:

*knowledge, not ONLY Out Looking (Beauty) !

*practice, not preaching/recite only (million of reciter are there) !

*Forgiveness, not Anger !

*Spiritual love, not Lust !

*and CompromiseOne should look for a person who..

1) Has love for Allah (swt) and the messenger (saw)

2) Has knowledge of the deen, and can act upon it.

3) can control their anger

4) and willing to compromise.

And it goes both ways, so women seeking a man, should look for the same things.Aisha’h r.a reports “one day I was on a camel which was somewhat difficult to control and the Prophet s.a.w remarked “you must be compassionate, whenever there is compassion in something it adorns it, and when it is removed from something it disgraces it”. reported by Imam bukhari(al-adab al-mufrad)

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So Whatever You Have Been Given

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“So whatever you have been given is but (a passing) enjoyment for this worldly life, but that which is with Allah is better and more lasting for those who believe and put their trust in their Lord. And those who avoid the great sins and lewdness, and when they are angry, they forgive. And those who answer the Call of their Lord, and perform the Salah, and who conduct their affairs by mutual consultation, and who spend of what We have bestowed on them.” (Qura’n 42:36-38)

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☀ ☀ Chapter: WOMEN (An-Nisa): Verse 05 ☀☀

•••► Holding the Property of the Unwise in Escrow

وَلَا تُؤْتُوا السُّفَهَاءَ أَمْوَالَكُمُ الَّتِي جَعَلَ اللَّهُ لَكُمْ قِيَامًا وَارْزُقُوهُمْ فِيهَا وَاكْسُوهُمْ وَقُولُوا لَهُمْ قَوْلًا مَّعْرُوفًا

And give not unto the foolish your property which Allah has made a means of support ☀for you, but feed and clothe them therewith, and speak to them words of kindness and justice.

اور اپنے وہ مال جنہیں الله نے تمہاری زندگی کے قیام کا ذریعہ بنایا ہے بے سمجھو کے حوالے نہ کرو البتہ انہیں ان مالوں سے کھلاتے او رپہناتے رہو اور انہیں نصیحت کی بات کہتے رہو

☀☀ Brief Explanation (Tafseer) ☀☀
•••► Allah says;

وَلاَ تُؤْتُواْ السُّفَهَاء أَمْوَالَكُمُ الَّتِي جَعَلَ اللّهُ لَكُمْ قِيَاماً …

And give not unto the unwise your wealth which Allah has made a means of support for you,
Allah prohibited giving the unwise the freedom to do as they wish with wealth, which Allah has made as a means of support for people.
• This ruling sometimes applies because of being young, as young people are incapable of making wise decisions.
• It also applies in cases of insanity, erratic behavior and having a weak intellect or religious practice.
• It applies in cases of bankruptcy, when the debtors ask that the property of a bankrupt person is put in escrow, when his debts cannot be paid off with his money.

☀ Ad-Dahhak reported that Ibn Abbas said that Allah’s statement, وَلاَ تُؤْتُواْ السُّفَهَاء أَمْوَالَكُمُ (And give not unto the unwise your property)
refers to children and women.
Similar was also said by

☀ Ibn Mas`ud, Al-Hakam bin Uyaynah, Al-Hasan and Ad-Dahhak:
“Women and boys.”

☀ Sa`id bin Jubayr said that
`the unwise’ refers to the orphans.

☀ Mujahid, Ikrimah and Qatadah said;
“They are women.”
Spending on the Unwise with Fairness

•••► Allah said,
… وَارْزُقُوهُمْ فِيهَا وَاكْسُوهُمْ وَقُولُواْ لَهُمْ قَوْلاً مَّعْرُوفًا ﴿٥﴾
but feed and clothe them therewith, and speak to them words of kindness and justice.

☀ Ali bin Abi Talhah said that Ibn Abbas commented,
“Do not give your wealth, what Allah has made you responsible for and made a means of sustenance to you, to your wife or children. Rather, hold on to your money, take care of it, and be the one who spends on them for clothes, food and provision.”

☀ Mujahid said that the Ayah, وَقُولُواْ لَهُمْ قَوْلاً مَّعْرُوفًا (and speak to them words of kindness and justice),
refers to kindness and keeping good relations.

This honorable Ayah commands kind treatment, in deed, with family and those under one’s care. One should spend on them for clothes and provisions, and be good to them, such as saying good words to them…..(S.S)