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How to deal with women if you are a man enough;
When she hits you or pushing you … (hold her hands)
When she get angry ( just hug her )
When she be silent (ask her what is problem)
When she Ignore you (Give her attention)
When she asked you about something (don’t neglected her)
When she want to get away from you ( do not agree with her opinion)
When you see her in the worst situations (Tell her you are beautiful
when you see her Cry( kiss her head and tell her i love you a lot)
When you feel her scared (protect her )
When you see her jealous (that’s mean she love you more than you imagine )
When she say to you i love you that’s mean she have feelings to you more than you think)
When she look into your eyes don’t turned your eyes until she turned it first.
… They are a garment for you and you are a garment to them …
Qur’an [2 : 187]
By getting married you are not just getting a wife, you are getting your whole world. From now until the rest of your days your wife will be your partner, your companion, and your best friend.
She will share your moments, your days, and your years. She will share your joys and sorrows, your successes and failures, your dreams and your fears. When you are ill, she will take the best care of you; when you need help, she will do all she can for you;
When you have a secret, she will keep it; when you need advice, she will give you the best advice. She will always be with you: when you wake up in the morning the first thing your eyes will see will be hers; during the day, she will be with you, if for a moment she is not with you by her physical body, she will be thinking of you, praying for you with all her heart, mind, and soul; when you go to sleep at night, the last thing your eyes will see will be her; and when you are asleep you will still see her in your dreams. In short, she will be your whole world and you will be her whole world. ♥
It requires that a husband and wife should be as garments for each other. Just as garments are for protection, comfort, show and concealment for human beings, Allah expects husbands and wives to be for one another.
‘And the believers, men and women, are protecting friends of one another; they enjoin the right and forbid the wrong, and they establish worship and they pay the poor-due, and they obey Allah and His messenger; as for those, Allah will have mercy on them; Lo! Allah is Mighty, Wise. Allah hath promised to believers – men and women – gardens under which rivers flow, to dwell therein, and beautiful mansions in gardens of everlasting bliss; but the greatest bliss is the good pleasure of Allah: This is the supreme felicity.’ Qur’an [9 : 71 – 72]
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worshipandswag said:
I’m speechless! This is inspiring…now make one for men and how females should treat them. Lol
♡ The Tale Of My Heart ♡ said:
I’m very grateful that you find it very inspiring, thank you and inshallah will write one for men lolz 🙂
Fox@n said:
So true people should abide to these points. Great post.
Fox@n said:
Totally true not even b.c you put the verses. Great post.
♡ The Tale Of My Heart ♡ said:
thankyou I’m so greatful for your comments 🙂
Sirenia said:
Lovely, simply lovely.
♡ The Tale Of My Heart ♡ said:
Thank you, and so grateful for your visit 🙂
duncanr said:
Excellent post !
And very true
P.S. when writing this comment, my eye kept drifting to the left – distracted by the ‘where’s my baby?’ animated gif in your sidebar. Made me chuckle – seemed very apt given the subject of your post 😆
♡ The Tale Of My Heart ♡ said:
Thanks for lovely comment, the side bar i got that fro one of the site i dont even remember now. i love that anyway, I will get to that stage maybe in 20/30 yrs or more, if I get married again otherwise ???? hahahahaaa
Zahir 🙂
unwrittentruth said:
oh my gosh. i love this to the extreme.
♡ The Tale Of My Heart ♡ said:
Thats not extreme, thats the way it should be may be more. This is the truth and truth always prevailed and falsehood always false and bound to be perished.
Thanks for the appreciation and i am grateful for your comment 🙂
heartofbella said:
Yes I agree. how to deal with women is wonderful and very on point! Thank you 🙂
♡ The Tale Of My Heart ♡ said:
Thank You I am grateful for your comment 🙂
Miss Demure Restraint said:
This is a touching and beautiful post. Your way to deal with women is amazing.
this is one of your best.
♡ The Tale Of My Heart ♡ said:
Thanks Missy D, its not my way mostly who follow the Quran and Sunnah never have a problem in their domestic life and find their very humble and kind. People with their lack of knowledge they practice their cultural myth, And thats why even some of the well educated men and women in muslim community havnt got a clue what the Quran says. But they do talk about it.
Anyway its between them and their God or Allah, as it also for me what ever I do how I understand my rights and the others I will be answerable to my God or Allah. I bow to no man but All Mighty Lord and not answerable to any human but it is also my duty not to harm other in anyway. It is quite a vast debateable subject.
As there are many great religion were introduce to mankind over the time period. Some follow and some dont. I may not be the best example but what I think is right and stand for it. Mostly is common sense.
I am so much greatful that you appreciate the positive thought. I must thank you for reading this post 😉
All above I said is my opinion, and I said upon the knowledge of different sciptures as well as my personal experience in different countries….